How to Gain Perspective and Power When It Feels "Too Close for Comfort"

A client came to the session saying that she was having trouble advocating for herself at work because the issue felt like this (places palm over face) -- that she had no objectivity. The issue felt too close for comfort. She couldn't see the broader picture, and she felt stuck. If you can relate to this, try this technique I demonstrate in a 3-minute video tutorial.

The Thing We Didn't Know 20 Years Ago

20 years ago, we were graduating from Smith and had NO idea that we can grow in our careers faster than we thought possible WITHOUT
✅ Overworking
✅ Over-accommodating
✅ Or overthinking the whole thing.
Still working on that last one? You’re not alone.

What My Ancestors Told Me

We explore the profound connection between our foremothers' dreams and our contemporary achievements. We celebrate the legacy of women's liberation and the transformative power of financial freedom.

Could Coaching Get You More Money?

What results would you need to create for the coaching to pay for itself?

What if, as a result of coaching, you negotiated a pay bump?

And what would it be worth in the long run to have the mindset and strategies of confident self-advocacy become second nature to you? 

🍀 Is it wear-green-to-work day?

It’s easy to forget what an incredible privilege, astonishing gift it is to be a woman — anyway you define womanhood.

In this photo, I’m graced by two gorgeous genderqueer girlfriends for whom embracing their femininity is a brave step in bucking the “rules.”

The Best Comeback to "You Make Enough Money" When Negotiating

🤦🏾‍♀️ When you’re a woman, a minority in the workplace, you will encounter comments insinuating you should be “grateful” for what you earn now (which makes me so mad… don’t get me started on how sexist that is).

👉🏼 But here’s the thing: your rebuttal does NOT have to be confrontational.

The Black Lace Incident of 2010

Cindy Gallop and I discussed:

  • Women at any age can relish having (more) money and sex

  • Ending rape culture and the culture of enabling workplace sexual harassment 

  • A vision that upturns our socialized norms about sex and how that can change how we relate to each other and share power in the workplace

How to Cure Loneliness and Why It Matters

We have the silent, lethal epidemic of LONELINESS amongst us. Here are steps to cure it: Form in-the-flesh, IRL connections with a community unrelated to your work or career. Let youreslf detox from screens, even if for 2 hours at a time, and embrace physical activities, which boost your overall well-being, creativity, confidence, and leadership presence.

Case Study: Annie's SMART Start

Annie, a Corporate Development Director, shifted from feeling stuck in the “weeds” to “wowing” the decision-makers. She set SMART career goals, devised strategies to overcome obstacles, and articulated her vision to senior leadership. Her story can be yours, too.

The Wake-Up Call That Turned My Career Around

I went from earning 50% below average as the only woman on a hedge fund team to coaching women to getting promoted and launching companies that pay multiples of their previous salaries. How? By getting unstuck, getting strategic, and quieting the itty bitty sh*tty committee in my mind. It's your turn. Join the free webinar on 1/19/24 - "SMART Start."